Futuros padres en Edmonton, Alberta, Canadá

For the past 13 years I have only been a mother. I am a nurse by trade and I am of South African Nationality. I immigrated to Canada 1 year ago to join my husband here as South Africa is just to dangerous, and so much more help and opportunities here for my daughter. I have been married for 5 years and since I have been in Canada I have started studying again and tring to take my nursing further. Ive not done anything else but nursing because helping others is just what I know best to do. I mostly work with the elderly it is a job where when i go home im happy and when i go to work im happy to. My husband is a chef so I am very honest I do not cook! I can cook but I dont it can never ever be compared to hes dinner he makes us every night just hes preference to cook dinner. I am always happy even when im sad. I am far from perfect but I do try my best. I am friendly and in South Africa I had allot of friends mostly now im alone but there is this void I need to fill and i so desperately want another child just 1 more child but i cant so my emotions at the moment is im pretty emo haha as some would say.

My only dream as a child was to be a mother I did not really want to be anything else. In the year 2000 I had a baby and there were allot of complications, which led to her suffering some brain damage and collapsed lungs. Due to this complicated Birth she is disabled but I love her allot I have been her everything and she is mine. I met my husband 9 years ago and we ended up getting married after a long relationship. We have been married for 5 years now :). After we got married I got pregnant again and I had twins unfortunately they did not make it and I was diagnosed with a very bad case of endometriosis. Due to that and being so ill my husband had to make this hard choise to have my reproductive organs removed. I have only now recovered from the shock of it all but we desperately want another child. Before we look into adoption we are looking into this because it is only fair that he has a child of hes own if by a miracle this is possible and I am more than willing to support this. I am not sure I see myself as a foster mom as giving up the child would be just as hard as when i lost my own and my ability to have any more. So this is what I would like to look into.

Dear Human Being with the biggest heart on earth, I would like to thank you for giving this give to someone who can not have a child of their own, and I want to thank you for having the courage to do this for someone else. I am not sure that there are words of thanks to someone like you because this is a gift only God can give us and it makes me speechless. Im not even sure that I have the words to thank you for even looking at this letter because that alone is a gift. I dont know how to write a letter to a surrogate mom and I am very honest about that, I can not imagine the joy you give to other people by using yourself as a human being to make someone elses life no less than perfect. The day I had my little girl was perfect she changed my life and the question arises to me but she should be enough..and she is but I have that void where I feel I would love to have another chld a gift for my husband where he can experience that love you feel because there is nothing bigger than that love you feel when you hold your child. He truly loves my child and a better father she can not ask for but he also has that hurts me to write this letter to someone else and that there would be someone else to give a gift I am suppose to but I believe God will make this choice and He will decide our future to have a child, So I pray for you more than I pray for myself because the only thing I can ask for is that you are blessed for what you do. Honestly no words can express what I am asking you for while you read this letter, because the question in my head is "wow would I be this generous if I could?" But I cant answer it because i dont know. I do know im not a selfish person but this is a complete selfish request I make to you for asking you to please help me have just 1 more child I dont care if he/she has 2 fingers and 1 toe I wont love him/her any less. Thank you for reading this and even considering it :) Mariska

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