As a family in Hamilton, Ontario, we find ourselves yearning for the joy of children. After years of struggle with infertility due to health challenges, our hearts are heavy but hopeful. My daughter and her husband have faced numerous hurdles, including unsuccessful IVF attempts and significant surgeries. Despite these challenges, we believe there is still light ahead of us. We are searching for a kind and compassionate surrogate to help us realize our dream of becoming grandparents. We promise to approach this journey with love and respect, and we hope to connect with someone who understands the essence of family.
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I am looking for my daughter and son in law who are unable to bear children due to health reasons now for a least 8 years now. This is from My daughter in her own words..............I was born Christmas day 34 years ago, and always felt I had a special connection with the big guy upstairs, felt like my dreams would come true if I set my heart into what ever I persued, and for the most part they did. Married a wonderful man and live in Hamilton Ontario. Husband and I have been trying to conceive since 2008. Got pregnant within 6 months of going off the pill, however had a miscarriage at 9 weeks in July 2009, have never been able to get pregnant since. Husband and I have been working with a reproductive specialist in the city since and have tried numerous different medications, have had several failed IUI's, and underwent laproscopic surgery in April 2011, all this just to get enough follicles to retreive, finally able to have a sucessful cycle and retrieved 14 eggs, 8 fertilized, one died waiting for the blastocyst stage and had 7 survive. I had surgery again in April 2012 to remove endometriosis, adhesions and a 9cm ovarian cyst that also resulted in the removal of my right ovary, post operative I found out they also did a bilateral tubal ligation. My heart sank from that day on because I knew my chances of having my own children would never be the same, felt like I lost a part of myself that day. I also have PCOS and have tried to offset with Metformin but no success with that. I've had an endometrial biopsy done earier this year with hopes to changing the endometrial lining to improve implantation, again unsuccessful. We've done 3 IVF transfer's this year and did our most recent transfer November 2012 with hopes of being pregnant for Christmas/aka my birthday but again failed...With darkness closing in and an emotional roller coaster ride I was ready to throw in the towel. However luck had shined in my direction when my sister offered to be a surrogate for us, I was over the moon about it, but before we started investigating further the legalities etc., she changed her mind to per-sue her career dreams and retracted her offer. Devestation will never compare to how I felt. This Christmas is especially hard, because it's still so fresh and my hope is thinning, I think I've lost that special connection with the big guy I once had, I have no desire to celebrate the holiday season. Christmas has always been a time of love, laughter and family, and it saddens me that I will never be able to share the joys of my childhood ;as my many friends and family have when it comes to decorating the Christmas tree, baking cookies, or telling bedtime stories, or wraping and hiding gifts with their children, I am starting to feel like I'll always be the one watching from the sidelines... I have 4 blastocysts left and I am no longer willing to risk losing them on myself. Options are running out, as is my patience, faith and financing... Im heartbroken if this is the end... Resources for surrogacy is extremely limited in Canada, and most of the posts I find, most people seem to be looking for a large check at the end of it all,... I've posted everywhere except my local newspaper, I even wrote to the Ellen show with hopes of finding a GS match, asking her to spread the word... Thanks for reading my story, and if you know any angels I'd be interested in knowing them too. "In the best of times, our days are numbered anyway. So it would be a crime against nature for any generation to take the world crisis so solemnly, that it put off enjoying those things for which we were designed in the 1st place. The opportunity to do good work, to enjoy friends, to fall in love, to hit a ball, and to bounce a baby" - Alistair Cooke
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