About Rick D*******
never asked, so I never told, and, I am gay. Two partners, and I am 35, married both (12 yrs) and currently on year 4. My two children are adopted, at birth, from Central America. My new partner and I hope to go abroad and adopt, but it is not so easy anymore. I am Fertile and have no use for the stuff, always first try? healthy, I guess I am smart I am educated, funny, I have been published, I have acted, I work for myself using a combo of my degree's (ARNP, LNC, MSW, PH, WH) and I am told I am really attractive and do not appear my age (usually I get carded if I go out with friends, I have a mixed ethnicity however I look like a Polish boy, I am tall, healthy, and since I am asked this by people (I do have size 14 shoes.)
Why Rick D******* is here
I applied to be a donor at a large clinic and was accepted. After donating for several months, I think I said something, but I as essentially told no gay men. Then, I met a lesbian couple who wanted to start a family, and I sort-of appeared like a mixture of each- 10 months later donor baby one (partner one)then they wanted to wait three years, and try again. 9 months later baby two (partner two.) I donated to each once so their children are bio. They are not my children, although I am do like getting the holiday cards with their pictures and their moms do send me a letter once in a while (*they just do that, not because I asked them too.) Then, out of the blue, they asked me one more time (their children where now 12 and 9... They could not decide who to carry, so I AI for each, both conceived and both had babies on the same day. They are now 18 months old. I really don't ask for anything in return, although if I was asked, Id have to say that getting the holiday cards is a nice surprise. Also, they know that if they ever needed me for something- I am here. I am only not open to donating in their country, Poland. I am willing to help another couple like I did before (a lesbian couple who both want to experience pregnancy, a single person who is male or female, or a heterosexual couple.) I will help you have siblings if you want, and if you need IVF or IVF with Egg Donor, or all that and a surrogate, that is ok too. We all deserve the right to be happy;)
Personal letter
Hey I know this must be a frustrating time. You have a lot of options and a lot to consider. The one thing I can offer you is commitment, if you want siblings, NP. I do have a passport, and will travel, but I cant pay for that aspect (but I am not seeking any compensation.)