At 35, I am a devoted wife and a passionate advocate for disability rights living in East London. My journey has been filled with health challenges, but I’ve emerged resilient and hopeful. My husband Johan and I are eager to share our love with a child. Growing up in a children's home, I've always dreamed of being a loving parent. Together, we envision a home overflowing with laughter and warmth, where our child will thrive. We appreciate the incredible gift of surrogacy and the profound impact it can have on our lives. Your kindness could help fulfill our deepest wish.
Intended Parents in East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Tanishka
Based in East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa, these intended parents are looking for a surrogate mother. They prefer someone aged 25 to 34, a match in South Africa, and South African nationality. This appears to be a new surrogate or donor journey for them.
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I am 35 years old, live in East London, used to work as a journalist but for the last 12 years I have been working for the provincial legislature in Bhisho as a Snr Communications Officer. I am happily married to an incredible man, Johan, who has been an endless support system during my many health challenges. I have 4 dogs, love walking, am a fanatic reader, am easy-going, love being around and being of help to people. My motto in life is that I am not here to see through people, but to see people through. I involve myself in disability causes and have been vocal in making the Legislature accessible for disabled people. I permanently walk with a crutch due to the damage to my spinal cord by the Transverse Myelitis. I do motivational talks for the EC Arthritis foundation & local disabled organisations.
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I am 35 years old and have battled with chronic auto-immune diseases (Lupus, Crohn's Disease & Transverse Myelitis) for the last 15 years of my life. I have had many rounds of chemo to manage the Lupus and am on immune suppressants for the rest of my life. I have now been in remission for 12 months, and am at my 'healthiest' that i've been in many, many years. But due to the severity of the Lupus, I have been advised by my specialist not to fall pregnant. The biggest miracle is that I am still fertile even after all the ongoing chemo treatment. Despite all the health challenges, I have many blessings for which I am so grateful for; I have a wonderful, caring and supportive husband who is 41, have a good job and wonderful friends. But deep down inside I yearn to hold my own child. It physically hurts when I think about not having a child of my own. I grew up in a children's home, and made a promise to myself years ago when I was a child that when I had a child I would love and protect that child as a parent should. A child is a gift from God, and it is a gift that I and my husband would cherish forever.
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With your assistance, my husband and I can be proud parents. Aside from saving someone's life, this is the most precious gift that you - a complete stranger - can give to me and my husband. It is a gift that we would cherish forever. Our child will be raised in a loving home filled with loads of laughter & pure love.
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