Heterosexual Couple From Portsmouth In United Kingdom Looking For Surrogate Mothers, Egg Donors

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Date Registered: 06 Apr 2009 Last Modified: 06 Apr 2009 Last Signed In: 17 Jan 2011

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Heterosexual Couple From Portsmouth In United Kingdom Looking For Surrogate Mothers, Egg Donors Between The Ages Of 25 And 40 And Must Be In Good Health.

Contact Information For This Heterosexual Couple

Name:	Emma
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City:	Portsmouth
Region:	England
Country:	United Kingdom

Heterosexual Couple Information And Surrogate Requirements

Nationality:	British
Race:	Caucasian
Couple Type:	Heterosexual Couple
We Smoke:	No
We Have Had Surrogate/Donor Before:	No
Willing to Travel:	No
Medical Expenses:	Up To 15000 Pounds
Number Of Children:	0
We Are Looking For:	Surrogate Mother, Egg Donor,
Aged Between:	25 To 40 Years Old
Country Surrogate/Donor From:	United Kingdom
Nationality Of Surrogate/Donor:	Any Nationality

Why We/I Want A Surrogate Mother, Egg Donor Or Sperm Donor:

Because my husband and I have been 'diagnosed' with unexplained infertility, and have been trying for 5 years to have a baby. We want to have a family together, and have lots of love to give a child. I feel bereft every time I see a young family and remember, yet again, that I cannot achieve this for myself. The heartbreak and emotional strain is ongoing, and although life goes on, and we have other interests, our missing child/children has left a huge gap in our lives.

Description Of Us:

I am 39, approx. 5ft 7" with shoulder length dark brown hair and glasses. I love my food, especially chocolate, and I regularly go to the gym to make up for my daily intake :) I love to potter in the garden, although I don't really know what I'm doing, and I like to be active - I'm like a Duracell battery: I keep going all day, until I finally collapse in a heap in front of the telly in the evening, by which time, it's all I can do to get up to go the loo, lol! Emotionally, I'm quite a sensitive soul, and I do bruise quite easily. I can be quite feisty though, and will stand up for myself if I feel it's warranted. I've also got 2 lovely cats, one of whom we got as a kitten 2 years ago, and he is (poor soul!) my baby substitute :)

My Letter To Surrogate Mother, Egg Donor Or Sperm Donor:

Hello :) This feels a bit strange, writing to someone I don't know, and opening my heart to you about the thing that saddens me most in my life. Everywhere I look, there are families, it seems society is geared towards being a parent, and I feel so alone as one of the 'forgotten few' who can't achieve what nature intended me to do - have a child. Since we began trying for a family 5 years ago, both my husband and I have experienced so many emotions, and I would not wish our situation on anyone. It is ongoing, and while I may have to accept it, I will never be able to come to terms with being childless. I feel angry that this is happening to us. I feel frightened that the ways things look at this moment, I will never be a mum. Something that is taken so much for granted by so many, I cannot seem to have, and no one can tell me why. I dread people around me becoming pregnant, because I know that while I am happy for them, it will make me sad, and serve as a reminder, yet again, of how my husband and I cannot have the family we so desperately want. It's a secret life of sadness, anger, frustration and hurt, a desperate hurt, and a feeling of sheer inadequacy - why doesn't nature take its course and give us our family? It's a question that no one seems able to answer. It all comes down at the end of the day, to the basic desire to nurture and love a child we can call our own, to watch it grow and develop and see it off into the world, saying 'we did that - that's our child.'