Hello! We’re Kiain and Andrew, a devoted couple from Hereford, England, together for 20 years and hoping to create a family. Despite looking into various options over time, we’re still searching for the right support. What we desire most is to share our love and life with a child. Both of us are excited about the little moments—a child’s laughter, school events, and family holidays. We understand the challenges ahead, but we truly believe that welcoming a child into our lives will bring us purpose and joy. Thank you for considering us as hopeful parents; we appreciate your kindness and support.
About the intended parents profile
I am a 37 year old male. I am 6ft tall and of a slim build , with blonde hair and blue eyes , I have a bubble and out going personality . I am a working professional person managing homes for adults with learning disabilities. My partner and I have a lot of love to give to a child of our own, and we both feel that there is a big gap in our lives Having a family of our own would make our lives and relationship feel complete and would give us that meaning and purpose of life.
Intended parents surrogacy preferences
I am in a same sex relationship , my partner and I have been together for 20 years and are desperate to have a family of our own. We looked into different options over the years and don't seem to be getting any help , support or guidance in meeting our dream.
Message from the intended parents
Hello, Why should you help me and my partner to become parents and to have a family of out own ? We have been together for 20 years , and like any couple in a long term relationship we would love to have a family of our own. For as long as I can remember I have been desperate to become a father , there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think how our life could be if we had our own family. Our lives feel as if there is a huge gap , we have so much love to offer to our own family, we both often say to each other what is the purpose in us having all that we have when we have no children to share it with, what is the purpose in us both working so hard . All our friends and family have families of there own , and we both long to have the joy and the love that they have from being a family. I am god father to most of my friends children , and I love being a god father and spending time with my god children, taking them to the park, and spoiling them, but it just isn't the same as having your own child, I long for those days when you and your child spend time together watching telly and having cuddles , and watching my child develop ,and take there first steps, say there first word, and seeing my child's clothes on the washing one drying , and hearing my child call out daddy. I so want to be a parent , I look at my friends and can't help but feel a bit jealous, I want to take my child to the park, I want to take my child to school and be there waiting at the school gates to pick them up, I want to lay the dinning table for my, partner , my child and I and plan family holidays, and arrange birthday parties for my child, I want to have Christmas where the Christmas tree is full of presents for my child, Christmas for us at the moment has no meaning, there is no excitement or joy for us at Christmas, Christmas to us is all about children and family, seeing the joy on your child's face on Christmas Day as there open there present, and as a parent that proud moment when you go and see your child in there school play, and that feeling of proudness and over whelming love for your child. I go into town and walk past all the baby shops and think will I ever be able to buy those cute little out fits , will I ever be the proud daddy pushing my child in there pushchair through town. I want to hear the noise of a baby crying and laughing in our home, I want to have a dead arm from where I have held my child in my arms for to long, I want all the worry and stress that's comes with having children as they grow up. As much as I love my partner , there is such a big hole in my life, I want to work and better myself for my child so that what ever I do in my life benefits my child, having a family of our own would give us both that meaning and purpose in life and make us feel complete as a couple. We did not ask to be gay, and being in the same sex relationship doesn't mean that we don't want the same as every one else in a relationship, because we do want the same as every one else, but for us to have our dream is a big challenge and a big emotional roll coaster, which no one can understand unless they can't have children of there own. Writing this has made me see how incomplete my life is. I hope and pray that one day our lives feel complete , and that there is some one out there who is willing to help us in making our dreams come true. I thank-you for taking the time to read this. With warm regards, Kiain and Andrew McKean.
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