Surrogate Mother in Madison, Wisconsin, United States

About this surrogate mother profile

I am an energetic, annoyingly optimistic geek girl. A Buddhist that values fact and compassion above all else. I voted for Bernie in the last primary. My Patronous is a rat and my house is hufflepuff. I am a stay at home mom to my insanely energetic two year old. Let me tell you about my birth and pregnancy. First I will say I took two medications one being zoloft during my pregnancy I would continue this. I am open to discussion. Please feel free to message me. I had not planned to be a parent. Lucky for me I dont drink or smoke. I changed from the pill to an IUD because I wanted to be lazier. A few months later, Jan, it dislodged. I had it reinserted in early March. It dislodged again in March or April and I was pregnant by May. I found out June 23rd the day before my 30th birthday. My boyfriend and I had a long discussion at the time. We considered all options. I could not consider abortion for healthy fetus. So we moved forward! I was sick the entire time! Nauseous all except three weeks. But it was an exceptionally healthy pregnancy. If I wasn't nauseous then I was worried! There were no complications or scares. I had my daughter just after 37 weeks. Contractions for 10 hours and then hilariously when pushing started she was out in under five minutes. So quickly a nurse had to catch her. They nick named her Rocket on the ward. I came into this with the idea of "parent in charge" and ended up attachment parenting. It was what my daughter needed and I was blessed exhausted to give it to her. I have been with my partner for ten years, and we will be getting married in the fall : I am a non smoker! I do not drink. I put on 30 pounds during my first pregnancy and while the is a little low, they said it was perfectly healthy for me. The baby had plenty of room! My BMI is about 19 I do not diet. I eat what I like.

Surrogate Mother journey and preferences

I had always been interested in being a surrogate. After the birth of my daughter this became so much more important. I feel such breathless joy watching her. I want to be pregnant again. I didn't really connect with my first pregnancy. I would like that chance again.

Message from this surrogate mother

I value and open and honest relationship, so these are my expectations. -Travel, Legal, medical expenses will be covered by the IP. -There is should be a emergency fund if I am hospitalized for any reason for a extended time my daughter will need child care while my husband is at work. -I can offer traditional surrogacy service, but this will need to be discussed. -I can offer an unmediated birth, but with this I will expect to have a doula. You also have to forgive me for being kinda mean. -I would prefer to have two or less embryos per transfer unless their survival rate is low. - Breast feeding, I would be willing to pump and ship for you. BUT I did struggle to breast feed with my daughter and quit at six months. So this will be best effort without promised results. -Ugly topic- I will respect my IP's choice to abort a child with significant health issues. I will refuse to abort a child with cosmetics issues or medical issues that can be low risk resolved after birth. If the child poses a health risk to myself I reserve the right to choose abortion, this choice will not be made lightly. I view a child as person at conception, and it would be a incredibly hard choice. ... the occasional Thai food take out wont be rejected.

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