Surrogate Mother in Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa

About this surrogate mother profile

i am a strong independent woman, born and bred in South Africa. I have traveled the world extensively and lived all over. I have settled back home in South Africa, a mom of 2 kids, my pigeon pair. My own home business... and hopefully getting the chance to be able to afford the future my partner and i hope for our kids and ourselves...starting by a beautiful wedding.

Surrogate Mother journey and preferences

I was an egg donor when I was 19. And been on a mailing list ever sincei. I have been approached by many couples and even singles to be a surrogate. So this isn't an impulsive decision. I believe that i am an ideal candidate, had the health and strength of 2 people. My children are the healthiest around. I want to be a surrogate because I believe that I can offer a deserving person the same privilege of motherhood that came easilye to me, and in exchange for them to do the same for me and my family.

Message from this surrogate mother

To whomever may be reading this: I was an egg donor years ago, so this process is not entirely new to me. I have been approached by couples over the years to be a surrogate. The circumstances were not right at the time. I felt I should finish having my own children first...which I have. Also, and I wish I could honestly say my actions are completely altruistic but the reality is, they are not. It is a lot to put one's body though for oneself never mind someone else. I felt the couples who had approached me before, came to my country to take advantage of us, and see how little they could get away with paying. It made me feel cheap and that they don't really appreciate the sacrifice or the gift being offered. I look at my 2 perfect children that came easily for me in terms of falling pregnant, and I am able to offer this privilege to someone else. We find ourselves in a very serious financial crisis in my country, who has been severely mismanaged. I am unable to immigrate as my sons father is unwilling to grant his son permission for a better life. So, I turn to this option, that I can offer someone the life changing experience i have had the privilege of having, in return for someone helping us to do the same. I have had my own business that due to unforseen circumstances, I am having to close. My fiance and I want to get married, and start a life with our kids, 9 we have a baby daughter together but his job does not cover what we need. We want to start over, and I need to start from scratch, and have a nest egg for our kids etc. And this is something I believe you can understand and appreciate. I offer life , a safe haven to grow an exceptional human for you, and bless you in a way that only parents can appreciate and in exchange I hope you will do the same for us. This is a unique opportunity for mutual help for life's most important things. We need a future, some help to buy a house, get out debt etc...and you need life in form of a little special being. So. let's do this. I am finally ready ...and believe I am the right person for this season.

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